ABOUT
Welcome
A very warm welcome. I’m Andrea Love — Founder of The Couple Therapist.
I’m an internationally Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist (EFCT) and Relationship Coach, with a lifelong devotion to helping couples protect, repair, and deepen their loving connection.
My own relationship trauma in my twenties taught me something powerful: a Happy Ever After doesn’t just happen — it’s created, and carefully crafted.
This work is more of a calling for me than a career. Over the years, I’ve crafted a science-based, deeply relational roadmap called RE-PAIR, that helps couples calm conflict, rebuild safety, and rediscover the closeness they long for.
I walk alongside couples on the brink of separation.
And I uplift good relationships that want to become great.
I’m guided by one simple truth from the 75-year, $20-million human development study: ‘Happiness is love. Full stop.’
I believe every relationship carries the quiet seed of that possibility — even when it’s buried deep. As Bette Midler sings:
“Just remember in the winter, far beneath the winter snows,
lies the seed that with the sun’s love, in the spring becomes the rose.”
We support you to get breakthrough in:
Escalating Conflict
Poor Communication
Betrayal
Emotional Distance
Lack of Intimacy
Sexual Discrepancy
Felt Incompatibility
Thinking of Separating
Individual Distress
The Re-Pair Roadmap
Over the years, I began to feel limited by the traditional weekly 50-minute therapy model. Change could feel slow. There rarely felt enough time. And too often, progress wasn’t fully protected once therapy ended.
I knew couples needed a faster, deeper, more sustainable way to heal — and a way to build their new bond so love could keep growing, long after the crisis had passed.
That’s why I created RE-PAIR — my signature roadmap to Recover, Reconnect, and Rekindle your relationship.
Whatever your starting point, or the nature of your connection crisis, RE-PAIR offers a clear, compassionate path forward. It’s not about fixing what’s broken — it’s about restoring what matters most. Forever. It’s your roadmap to a happier Us, and the secrets to securing your Happy Ever After.
We start with your welcoming Heart HAVEN, where HAVEN stands for your Heart-led Assessment, Validating your bond and Evaluating what’s Needed Next. From here we explore your next best step together. Whether through MASTERCLINICS, MASTERMINDS or MASTERCARE, elevated and accelerated relational support is offered for couples who want conscious, connected love for life.
I’m Certified in Couple and Individual Therapy by the International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy, accredited by the BACP, a Graduate of The Couples Institute, and trained to Level 2 in the Gottman Method. I have delivered thousands of Couple Therapy hours over many years.
More than anything — I care.
Couple therapy can feel daunting. My intention is always to help you feel safe, seen, and significant. As well as working online, I offer face to face sessions near Weybridge in Surrey, where I offer a calm, compassionate, and beautiful space for you to create your RE-PAIR.
Our Manifesto
Love starts naturally. Staying in love takes strategy.
Couples thrive when they know how to recover, reconnect, and rekindle.
Happily-ever-after isn’t found — it’s built.
Intentionality keeps connection alive. Complacency quietly erodes it.
Love is a verb.
Small, daily actions protect your bond and care for your togetherness.
Relationship skills can be learned.
Love is both a feeling and a science. With the right tools, every couple can love better.
Kindness and respect are non-negotiable.
Conflict doesn’t destroy relationships. Disrespect does.
Engagement is a lifestyle, not a milestone.
Happy couples create moments to connect.
Support is wisdom, not weakness.
We all need a village to create a true ‘Happily Ever After.’
A loving relationship is a legacy.
Every couple deserves the chance to Master what Matters Most.
‘This book has obviously been written with passion. The author makes a clear distinction between the behaviours that can make or break a marriage which is very helpful.’
‘I wish I had read this years ago. This book is full of insight, stories and advice. I know many people will find this such a help- I hope both partners dare to read it to achieve even better marriages! A must read!!!’
The Love Mission
Out of my passion to see love last, I have made it my life mission to empower couples to move their mountains by Mastering what Matters Most. I have even changed my business name to Andrea Love!
Love that lasts isn’t luck—staying in love takes leadership and heart-smart strategy. Know how to love best, and how to always come back home to Happy. Most of us come into adult relationships having only our childhood experience as our baseline, which is not always the best. None of us knew what we didn’t know.
The Love Mission is about seeking to transform hearts and homes in love, one couple at a time. The MMM Now You’re Talking initiative is based on The MMM Now You’re Talking initiative is built on three simple but powerful pillars: Make happy. Move hearts. Mend homes.
Because lasting love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a practice. It’s about choosing joy, creating connection, and building a home that reflects the love you’ve always dreamed of. Let’s master love and make it last - for this generation and the next.
TRANSFORM Your DISTRESS Into SUCCESS
“We reached out to Andrea when we were stuck in a bad place in our relationship and couldn’t see a way for things to improve, Andrea was amazing at helping us to understand each other, to empathise and communicate properly. It’s one of the best decisions we have made as a couple and would highly recommend for anyone facing a similar situation.”
“Andrea has given us a lot of important tools to use day to day to help how we communicate with each other and has been an important translator to truly understand what we mean with the language that we use which has saved our relationship, we are so grateful for all the help and support and now in a much happier and healthier relationship”
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